by Durgesh Kumar
Recently I read a news in newspaper PG student in Hyderabad commits suicide because due to a failure in love.Most stories like-"He/she fall in love with a girl/boy.But when his/her overtures rejected,he/she committed suicide".In these days many young people are committing suicide or killing too due to love failure.We have been hearing farmers' suicide deaths in India due to failure of crops and the resultant debt burden, or something else, but these types of suicides are more wiered.
British writer W. Somerset Maugham is said to have joked near the end of his life, “Dying is a very dull, dreary affair. And my advice to you is to have nothing whatever to do with it.” Many would be quick to agree and would gladly accept his advice if only it were that easy. More than two thousand years earlier, the Greek philosopher Epicurus suggested, “It is possible to provide security against other things, but as far as death is concerned, we all live in a city without walls.”
More than 1.1 lakh people commit suicide in India for various reasons in a year. Average for every 5 minutes one person commits suicide in the country(source:srimissoin). There will be actually more suicide numbers than reported.
"love failure" is a silent malaise stalking young men and women in india,with several instance of techies,engineering students,research scholars.
Many of these romantics lovers do not leave a suicide notes in order to protect their beloveds from trouble.But they forgot to destroy phone records,sms,E-mails before they take the extreme step.It is only through friends that the police come to know.
But a few leave some hints like "I am committing suicide because my beloveds broke my heart".
Why these people could not considered their family and people who left behind.Why they think after they die,their problem will solved?.
People need to understand that they can fall in love multiple times, there is such a thing as true love but no one ever said it can only happen once. There's a lot of fishes in the sea, all unique and all can bring something new to the table.
Getting betrayed or rejected in love takes a toll on self esteem. Person tries to be in his/her cocoon or seeks company which can re in force self pity. Don't do that. Dress nicely and socialize. Seek positive people and be in their company. Initially you might feel running away . Don't do that . Keep mingling.
so finally i just want to say that keep smiling,think about people who want to see you happy.
Happy valentines day!!!
British writer W. Somerset Maugham is said to have joked near the end of his life, “Dying is a very dull, dreary affair. And my advice to you is to have nothing whatever to do with it.” Many would be quick to agree and would gladly accept his advice if only it were that easy. More than two thousand years earlier, the Greek philosopher Epicurus suggested, “It is possible to provide security against other things, but as far as death is concerned, we all live in a city without walls.”
More than 1.1 lakh people commit suicide in India for various reasons in a year. Average for every 5 minutes one person commits suicide in the country(source:srimissoin). There will be actually more suicide numbers than reported.
"love failure" is a silent malaise stalking young men and women in india,with several instance of techies,engineering students,research scholars.
Many of these romantics lovers do not leave a suicide notes in order to protect their beloveds from trouble.But they forgot to destroy phone records,sms,E-mails before they take the extreme step.It is only through friends that the police come to know.
But a few leave some hints like "I am committing suicide because my beloveds broke my heart".
Why these people could not considered their family and people who left behind.Why they think after they die,their problem will solved?.
People need to understand that they can fall in love multiple times, there is such a thing as true love but no one ever said it can only happen once. There's a lot of fishes in the sea, all unique and all can bring something new to the table.
Getting betrayed or rejected in love takes a toll on self esteem. Person tries to be in his/her cocoon or seeks company which can re in force self pity. Don't do that. Dress nicely and socialize. Seek positive people and be in their company. Initially you might feel running away . Don't do that . Keep mingling.
so finally i just want to say that keep smiling,think about people who want to see you happy.
Happy valentines day!!!
